Swinging Both Ways With a Bi Couple
Swinging both ways simply means a couple where both the man and woman are open to bisexuality. Many swingers will say they ‘swing both ways’ as a way to denote that they are BOTH interested in bisexual activity. Since many couples who say they want a bi experience are really only wanting the woman to be bi during play, this is a way to set those apart. Here’s what you should know.
Bi Curious Couples
A bi curious couple who wants to swing both ways has not had a lot of experience with bi swinging. This doesn’t mean they will be bad partners, it just means if you meet a couple like this and decide to play you will need to go slowly and be patient. It’s a good idea to sit down beforehand and allow all parties to discuss what they are expecting and hoping for. It’s also a good time to set up some basic boundaries and guidelines so as not to end up with an awkward or uncomfortable situation later.
MFM Aspect
Swinging both ways means the men will want to play with each other as well. Many people aren’t comfortable with this, and if you aren’t, then you should be aware that this is common and almost expected with a couple that swings both ways. You may want to find a bisexual woman to bring in instead of a couple if you don’t want to play with another man.
Safety
A bisexual experience will require more protection than other types of experiences. You want to make sure you have plenty of condoms, and they should be changed before switching partners. This may seem tedious at first, but after a while it will be seamless.