How to Explore Bi Sexual Fantasies with Other Women

Posted on April 29th, 2011 by admin  |  No Comments »

Exploring a bisexual fantasy with another woman can be intimidating. You may not know what to do, and may be afraid of not knowing what to do. However, exploration with another woman is normal, and there is nothing to be afraid of. Here’s how you can safely explore while still have fun.
Meet Experienced Bisexuals
An experience bisexual or lesbian woman is going to be able to help you explore and show you the ropes so to speak. You can meet women that are open to helping others explore by using an adult dating forum or dating website. You just want to be clear in your advert or profile that you are inexperienced.
Start Slowly
If you are in a relationship with a man, it may not be possible to spend time with the woman alone in the bedroom. If you are single though, it’s best to start slowly and only with one another. This will give you to time to explore with no pressure.
Many women who are bi curious only get an opportunity to explore during threesomes. If this is the case, be sure you sit down with the male counterpart and explain the expectations and rules. They need to be open with you calling the shots and deciding what you want to try, and they need to understand no pressure. When you introduce the other woman in to the picture take things slowly. Only do what you are comfortable with, and don’t allow yourself to feel pressure from either party. If you want to try something but then don’t feel comfortable with it once you have started, don’t hesitate to say so.

Where to Look For Bi Swinger Contacts

Posted on March 19th, 2011 by admin  |  No Comments »

Finding bi swingers isn’t difficult, but it will require a little more work on your end. Posting an ad on a standard dating site probably won’t do you well in the long run. Here are some great ways to find other bi swingers.
Swingers Forums
One of the best places to meet other bi swingers is on swingers forums. If you are already a member of a swingers club, you may be able to find a forum through the club. Many clubs offer online communities to their members. Post an ad describing you and your partner, and what you are looking for. Include some photos if the forum allows you to post these. If not, be prepared to send photos later through email. You can also just start talking with people in the forums to get to know others this way as well.
Swingers Dating Sites
If you would rather cut through all the conversation and just meet other bi couples for swinging play, you can try finding a swingers dating site. Here you can create a profile, complete with photos and information on what you are looking for. You can also scroll through other profiles of couples who swing in your area. This is a good way to meet others to play with without having to spend a lot of time getting to know someone first. Once you meet a few couples, you can work on getting to know one another after you know they may be interested in the activity.

Swinging Both Ways With a Bi Couple

Posted on February 2nd, 2011 by admin  |  1 Comment »

Swinging both ways simply means a couple where both the man and woman are open to bisexuality. Many swingers will say they ‘swing both ways’ as a way to denote that they are BOTH interested in bisexual activity. Since many couples who say they want a bi experience are really only wanting the woman to be bi during play, this is a way to set those apart. Here’s what you should know.
Bi Curious Couples
A bi curious couple who wants to swing both ways has not had a lot of experience with bi swinging. This doesn’t mean they will be bad partners, it just means if you meet a couple like this and decide to play you will need to go slowly and be patient. It’s a good idea to sit down beforehand and allow all parties to discuss what they are expecting and hoping for. It’s also a good time to set up some basic boundaries and guidelines so as not to end up with an awkward or uncomfortable situation later.
MFM Aspect
Swinging both ways means the men will want to play with each other as well. Many people aren’t comfortable with this, and if you aren’t, then you should be aware that this is common and almost expected with a couple that swings both ways. You may want to find a bisexual woman to bring in instead of a couple if you don’t want to play with another man.
A bisexual experience will require more protection than other types of experiences. You want to make sure you have plenty of condoms, and they should be changed before switching partners. This may seem tedious at first, but after a while it will be seamless.

How Erotic Is Watching Your Wife Swing With Another Female?

Posted on January 20th, 2011 by admin  |  No Comments »

Watching your wife with another woman can be a hugely erotic experience. Many men have a fantasy of this. There are a few things to keep in mind before you bring this up.
Watching or Participating
Many men think that they just want to watch, but in the middle of the action they want to join in. This is common, but you need to try to plan ahead. Not all women are going to want a man joining in to one of these sessions. Even if you think you only want to watch, you should try to find a woman who is bisexual and okay with male contact just in case.
What to Expect
Women and men are much different when it comes to how they perform sexually. With women you will see a lot more foreplay and gentle touching before the things get really heated. Just because your wife acts differently doesn’t mean she is enjoying her time with the woman more than with you. It’s important to keep perspective, because mixed in with the erotic feelings you may feel jealousy as well. When this happens, just remember that it’s a different experience that can’t be compared to what she has with you. Allow her to enjoy herself and enjoy the show, you’ll be better in the end for it.

Finding Women for Your Wife
Your wife should be actively involved in this process as well. Swingers clubs are a great place to meet other bisexual women for your wife to play with. If this isn’t an option, you can set up swingers ads and profiles on swinging sites and forums to find other bisexual women.

Bisexual Swinger Meets Explained

Posted on December 19th, 2010 by admin  |  No Comments »

If you’ve been invited to a bisexual swinger meet, you may be confused regarding what to expect. They shouldn’t be intimidating though. Here are the basics of what typically goes on at a bisexual meet.
Many people who are bisexual or bi curious will start to explore their sexuality with simple threesomes. Since most meets are comprised of couples, this can get a little awkward. What will typically happen is two couples will get together and play in small groups. This means the threesome can be very fluid, sometimes going from two women and one man, to two men and one woman. This works well because everyone gets a chance to play and one person will always have the option of exiting the threesome and getting some rest or refreshments.
Group Sex
Another common activity in a bisexual swingers meet is group sex. This way the lines of sexuality aren’t clearly defined and those who are bisexual or bi curious will be able to play with their partners and with those of the same sex. If you aren’t comfortable with this, you need to be clear about it before you start playing, because once involved it’s going to get awkward if you need to back out of play during the middle of it.
New To Bisexuality
If you are bi curious and have never participated in anything like this, you should let the other couples know before the play begins. Swingers are very open, and will have no problem talking you through everything and giving you the room and time you need to get comfortable.

How Being Bisexual is Becoming Popular

Posted on November 17th, 2010 by admin  |  1 Comment »

Being bisexual has actually been popular for a long time, it’s just more open now. With bisexuality people don’t confine themselves to just one gender when it comes to sexuality, and this can open new adventures and avenues to explore.
Threesome Activity
One of the most common fantasies is the threesome. Whether a man wants to participate with two women, or a couple wants to introduce a third in to their bedroom every now and then, the threesome remains one of the more popular ways to explore sexuality. With a bisexual this becomes easier. A bisexual woman may be more open to bringing another woman in to the action, and a bisexual man can enjoy MFM threesomes easily.
Group Activity
Another common fantasy in the bisexual world is group sex or orgies. When bisexuals are involved the sexuality becomes more fluid, and people can simply do what feels right and good regardless of gender. If you aren’t able to set up a private group, you will be welcomed at any swingers club. Many clubs also offer bi nights where couples are free to explore with other couples who are also bisexual or bi curious.
Looking For Bisexuals
If you are bisexual and wish to bring another one in to your relationship, or you are in a bisexual relationship and wish to find a third, you can easily do so. There are many online communities where you can meet other bisexuals. Swinger’s forums and adult dating forums are great places to look. Setting up a profile on an adult dating site, or posting ads on forums will be pretty successful. If you are open to swinging you can check out some of the local swingers clubs as well.